As I pulled out my spring clothes and put away the heavy winter sweaters, I came to the realization that I need new clothes! Last summer I was pregnant and/or had a good deal of post baby chub so I got a few things but I still need some more. Part of my problem is my ever-changing body. In college I could just go shopping at the end of a season and buy next summer's clothes on clearance and know that they would fit. Now I never know if/when I'll be pregnant or breastfeeding. My body is either swelling with a baby or slowly shrinking post-baby and there is also that phase where I have trouble maintaining my weight and I can wear tiny pant sizes.
I need to go shopping but I want to be a smart shopper. I want to focus on buying things that I really, really love instead of buying things that are just ok because either a) they are on sale or b) I'm really desperate.
This is the part where you all come in. I'm sure that you all dress much nicer than I do. Lets face it, I'm not hard to beat. So I need your advice. I'll tell you what I like/don't like and you can give me all of your tips, favorite blogs, and even pick out an outfit for me. In fact, if you have a blog, I invite you to write a whole post in which you "dress me up" and style a new wardrobe for me. Just be sure and leave a comment with a link to your blog.
In order to get you started, here are few things that I want/don't want.
1. I want classy but not necessarily in style
now. Since lately I've only been able to wear my summer clothes every other year, I want to get clothes that will last for multiple seasons instead of looking dated in 2 years time.
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I would never wear this. Source. |
2. I've been trying to look more feminine and wear more skirts and dresses. I find that I feel so much more pretty and girly if I wear a skirt. I especially love maxis because of the stretch waists and I think that they are generally more comfortable than a pair of jeans.
3. So I have to feed my baby every 2-3 hours. This complicates matters. As much as I love a pretty dress, most are off limits. I also really like the look of a shirt tucked in to a pair of cute pants/shorts with a belt but this look is seldom worth the effort it takes to retuck the shirt in every couple of hours especially if I'm out in public. Access is key!
4. I do not wear yellows, oranges, peach, pastels or gold ever. They look terrible on me. I love purples, grays, blues, and pinks. Unfortunately for me, pastels have been in style for a couple of years.
5. I want to look my age. I have two kids and I'm closer to 30 than 20. I'm supposed to look mature, wise, and put together. Hahaha, sometimes put together means that the a certain pair of pants and a t-shirt are clean. That counts as put together, right?
6. Comfortable is also a definite bonus. I do not like to buy shoes that hurt my feet. I'll take a good pair of flats over heels any day. And stretchy knits? Oh, ya!
So I tried to find a good "outfit" picture of me and I guess that they don't exist. Here is the closest ones I could find.
Easter outfit: Blue dress with white stretchy blazer, gladiators, pearls and beach waves.
Another outfit that I got into just this past winter: Comfy sweater, scarf, skinnies, and ankle boots which I swore I would never get.
In an effort to be "real" and honest, I just went in the bathroom and took this picture. This is what I'm wearing right now to go to the store. I do have a turquoise necklace that I really like wear with this shirt but Will and Kira love to pull on it so it is easier just to leave it off.
While you mull over my fashion dilemma, I'm going shopping for pajama pants since two pairs of mine slowly disintegrated from too much use in just the past couple of months. I can't wait to see/read all of the advice that you have for me!